Welcome to Birdsong Advocacy

Calm, clear support for women navigating toxic separation.

Birdsong Advocacy was born from my own personal journey—and named for what I craved most in the darkest seasons of high-conflict separation: a return to hope, peace, and clarity. The sound of birdsong is gentle yet persistent. It rises above the storm, a quiet reminder that healing is possible and that our voices still matter, even when they’ve been drowned out for far too long.

At Birdsong, I offer one-on-one, confidential support for women facing the emotional and legal complexities of high-conflict divorce and custody. Whether you're just beginning the separation process or are deep in the challenges of co-parenting with an ex, this is a safe space where your experience is honored, your voice is heard, and your next steps are met with clarity and compassion.

I’m Jen—a registered nurse, mother of four, and certified High Conflict Divorce Coach. I founded Birdsong Advocacy after walking through my own long and painful divorce marked by emotional manipulation, legal overwhelm, and years of uncertainty. I know firsthand how disorienting and isolating this process can be—and I’m here to walk with you through it.

With a blend of lived experience and professional training, I help women organize their thoughts, prepare for legal hurdles, protect their children’s emotional wellbeing, and rediscover their own strength—one conversation at a time.

You're not alone here. And you don’t have to navigate this without support.